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Seollal (Lunar New Year in SK)

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I have been hooked into watching Drop Dead Divas previous seasons that I barely had time to write in my blog. In fact, I almost forgot that one of the biggest holidays in South Korea starts today.

Today is the first day of Seollal season. Seollal is Korea’s Lunar New Year. It is celebrated on the first day of the lunar calendar and lasts for three days. The day before, the day of and the day after Seollal are non-working holidays. This year, Seollal falls on February 10th (Sunday). From today, most Korean households are busy preparing for tomorrow’s celebration. For two years, the day before Seollal, I had been fulfilling the duty of a 며느리 (daughter-in-law), and that is to go to my husband’s eldest uncle’s house, where we have our family gathering, and help with the cooking and other chores. This is common among married women in Korea, that is why they say that most women here dread the occasion instead of look forward to it. This morning, I didn’t have to wake up early to go to Big Uncle‘s house, because they moved out and I don’t know their new house, so instead of helping with the Seollal preparation, I spent the rest of the morning in bed and enjoyed the rest of the day going out for a walk and watching a movie with my husband. (Happy day. ^^)

Seollal preparation can be quite taxing, especially for families who have to go to the countryside or big cities to be with their elders or relatives who live far. Some families make early travel arrangements, so they won’t have to deal with the stress of getting last-minute tickets and heavy traffic. Still, there is too much traffic on Seollal season, so no matter how I try to convince my husband to go some place after Seollal, he would say, “No.” The day after Seollal is considered a day of rest, but for families who have to travel back home, it is rather a tiring day.

Most of my husband’s relatives live nearby, and being Christians, they don’t perform ancestral rites. Some Korean families make a lot of preparation for these ancestral rites. They dress in hanbok (traditional Korean clothing) and gather at the ritual table in the morning. The women arrange the ritual table that should contain a memorial tablet and all the food used as offerings to the ancestors, which are later served to the family.

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When everything is ready, family members bow to their ancestors’ spirits, make offerings and pray. After paying their respects to the spirits, they eat the ritual food set on the table. The younger members of the family bow to the elders and present them with gifts. In return, the elders give them their blessings and wish them good things. All the young members of my husband’s family bow to the elders as a sign of respect. Instead of gifts, we give the elders money in an envelope. My husband has a big family, and we would go broke if we give money to all the elders, so we give only to our parents (or parents-in-law) and the eldest uncle who hosts the annual family gathering. On the other hand, the children receive  세뱃돈 (money given on New Year) from the elders after they bow to them and say, ” 새해 복 많이 받으세요!” (Have a blessed New Year!) Parents take a lot of effort in dressing up their kids for the 세뱃 (ceremonial bowing). They have them wear colorful and pretty hanboks. A few weeks before Seollal, you can see many children’s hanboks sold in department stores all around Korea. Even grocery stores sell them!

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Two of my adorable students garbed in their cute hanboks ^^V

Hanboks are not the only popular items in the market when Seollal is just around the corner. Seollal presents are also everywhere such as fruit, meat, traditional Korean snacks, herbs and yes, even toiletries (which we get every year).

Two weeks before Seollal, my husband and I went to Homeplus to buy some groceries. There were various Seollal presents on display.

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On Seollal, we spend the rest of the day in Big Uncle’s house. We go there in the morning for the worship, have breakfast, and then bow to the elders. We usually stay for lunch and dinner. The women help one another in preparing the meal, washing the dishes and cleaning, while the men keep themselves busy drinking, talking and playing 고스톱 (a Korean card game called Go-stop). Once all the work is done, some of the women join the men in playing. I don’t know how to play Go-stop, but I have tried playing a traditional game of sticks called 윷노리 (Yutnori).

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My husband plays Go-stop with Omonim and some of his aunties.

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Last year, my husband and I won 70, 000 KRW (almost 65 USD) from playing Yutnori with the family. ^^

To be honest, I don’t like it when the women stay in the kitchen most of the time while the men enjoy themselves. It’s not as if women don’t get to sit down and rest, but wouldn’t it be better if there is division of labor among men and women? (Just saying… ^^)

새해 복 많이 받으세요… Have a blessed new year! ^^

17 thoughts on “Seollal (Lunar New Year in SK)

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  2. I can sense sarcasm here.What a doting daughter-in-law (or son-in-law) you must be. Good luck with the in-laws. With the kind of attitude you have, perhaps you will need a lot of that. ^^

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  3. Thank you very much for that article. I am looking for some advices, because it’s my first year with my parents in law and I am not from Korea so I’m not sure what can i give them for Seollal.
    Do you think that star or planet from universe is good idea? I found ones on Kingdom of universe, ale I was thinking that maybe it’s great idea…

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  6. Thank you for sharing those info, Tukusigal. ^^

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  7. I see. In Japan, they don’t celebrate lunar New Year – except in some rural areas. Japanese used to until the 19th century. They got rid of it when they adopted the western (solar) calendars. In Japan, they celebrate New Year over 3 days from Jan 1 thru Jan 3. I know for Chinese people lunar New Year is a huge deal, but I did not really know it’s for Koreans, too.

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  8. Hi, Tukusigal. ^^ Happy Lunar New Year. Do you celebrate Lunar New Year in Japan? How do you celebrate it?

    Here in SK, Lunar New Year is a major event. Koreans don’t really celebrate New Year on January 1st… it’s just like any ordinary day.

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  9. Very interesting. So, do Koreans do anything special on Jan 1st? I toally agree with you – in Japan, when I was a kid, the women used to stay in the kitchen while all the men were in the living room drinking and partying. I don’t know what they do now. Women were having their own mini party in the kitchen and having fun but I did not really like it. I was always wishing everybody would be together in the same room.

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  10. Thank you for visiting. ^^

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  11. Thank you for dropping by. ^^

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  12. The Koreans and Chinese celebrate Lunar New Year. They celebrate it almost the same way, that’s what I have been told. Well, I know how Koreans celebrate it. How do the Chinese/Taiwanese celebrate New Year?

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  13. Thank you. Take care. ^^

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  14. Thank you for sharing. Enjoy the holiday there!

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  15. Love love loved this! I took my boyfriend to temple to pray for good fortune this year but he made it seem like Koreans don’t really make a big deal about lunar new year?? But it seems like they do make a big deal like us Taiwanese and Chinese people!!!😀

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  16. Very interesting! Thanks for sharing🙂

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  17. Thanks for this post – I didn’t know all of this interesting info about the Lunar New Year!🙂

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