Category Archives: Love, love, love…
The initial plan was to have my mom fly to Korea, so she could care for me, but my husband was able to ask for a leave, so he took the responsibility of being my caregiver. Lately, I’ve seen a number of Korean inpatients who have no family member or a friend attending to them. Korea is a busy country with working people who barely have time to breathe, so sometimes family members will just visit and leave the patient under the care of nurses. When my father-in-law had an operation, no one stayed with him in the hospital. (Everyone in the family works fulltime.) We only visited him and brought him everything he needed. Sometimes my mother-in-law would cook him dinner or bring his favorite banchan (side dishes) and stay with him for hours, but she never slept at the hospital room with him. When my husband underwent surgery, I insisted that I stay with him overnight, but he declined. He said sleeping in the hospital would be too uncomfortable for me, because he won’t be the only patient in the room. Most inpatients here stay in the wards, because Korea’s National Health Insurance does not cover upgrades like private rooms. I was willing to pay for my own room. (I have a private insurance and I really value my comfort.) Unfortunately, there was neither a private nor a semiprivate room available, so I had to stay in the ward with six other patients. I was more anxious of being in the ward than the surgery itself, because I thought I wouldn’t have much privacy, but it wasn’t so bad. The curtain around my bed was huge enough to cover my place and the room wasn’t packed to the gills. We were four patients in the room. Other patients arrived later. My bed was near the bathroom, so I didn’t have to walk far every time I had to use the toilet. The only issue I had was the noise. Sometimes I would be awakened by one of the patients whining. One of the attending family members coughed and spit incessantly in the middle of the night. (He seemed more ill than any of the patients in the room.) The girl next to me went through the same surgery that I had, and she was miserable when she woke up. She cried a lot during her first day post-op. I knew how painful the first couple of hours can be when the medicine wears off, and you have to fight off your sleepiness, because you’re instructed to stay awake. I asked my husband to get her a stuffed toy, and I gave it to her. I told her the pain would soon go away. Before I left the hospital, she gave me a thank-you letter and a box of macarons.
Much Ado about White Day
Today is White Day, 화이트데이 (hwaiteu dei) in Korean. White Day is another special day for couples celebrated on March 14th in some countries in Asia including South Korea, Japan, China and Taiwan. White Day is similar to Western-style Valentine’s Day wherein men give chocolates, candies, flowers or gifts to their ladylove.
Here in South Korea, White Day is considered as one of the unduly commercialized occasions as convenience stores, marts, bakeries and almost every shop or store you can find sell chocolates and candies that are beautifully decorated, wrapped or repacked. Some of these goodies are unbelievably costly. No wonder there are a few people buying White Day presents in downtown Seoul this year, according to The Korea Times.

A convenience store right in front of our apartment is prepped for White Day two days before the occasion.
White Day was first introduced in Japan in 1978, a year after a Fukuoka-based confectionery company started Marshmallow Day on March 14th wherein men were encouraged to give marshmallows to their special someone as a symbol of pure love. White signifies purity, so the confectionary company thought white marshmallows would make a great representation of love. Marshmallow Day, however, didn’t turn out to be a success, so some companies promoted white chocolates. Men began giving their sweethearts white chocolates or white candies, and later on, dark chocolates. Today’s White Day gift doesn’t have to be “white” as there is a variety of gifts available anywhere from simple treats to more extravagant presents such as bouquets, stuffed toys, jewelry, etc.

My husband and I went to Homeplus a few days ago and found a candy station made specially for White Day. Look at all these colorful candies! ^^
White Day is not only for couples. Friends, families and workmates also reciprocate Valentine’s Day and White Day gifts. If a female friend or a colleague gives a man a gift on Valentine’s Day, it is common etiquette for him to give her something in return on White Day. The same thing goes for the woman who is given a present on White Day. A simple chocolate or candy bar can already make a friend or a colleague happy. I got mine early… from a friend from Japan.^^
More lavish gifts or handmade chocolates are usually given to a special someone. My husband tried to make a brownie for me three years ago, but it turned out like this… T.T
Well, at least he tried. Kudos for the effort! ^^
My husband is not the romantic type, but he always tries his best to make me feel special. Today, I found some of my favorite chocolates on my dresser. He said he bought them a few days ago, but I know that he went out to buy them while I was busy updating my blog. It doesn’t matter anyway… he made the day complete. ♡♥♡
I hope everyone gets to enjoy White Day, not only women who are pampered with goodies or gifts, but all women in the world who deserve a smile or a hug.
HAPPY WHITE DAY! ^^